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Adjustments to Changes in Life

There’s going to be some changes happening in my personal family. I’m pregnant. This will be our first child and will be due in March 2011.
Change can be a lot of different things: fun, excitement, scary, nervous, unforgettable, dreadful and a lot of other adjectives that a person can add.
We are excited, nervous, [...]

Teens and Sleep

Teens and Sleep
Sleep is essential. It optimizes the brain and body for health. It is involved in rejuvenating all the cells in your body, gives brain cells a chance to repair themselves, and activates neuronal connections that might otherwise deteriorate due to inactivity (Amen, 2010).
Teens require a lot of sleep. Early adolescents also require more [...]

Three ways to play with your spouse

Marriage is a multitude of things: bumpy, scary, difficult, fun, long, boring, and another bunch of adjectives that a person can give. Marriage and life together can be very stressful too, with kids, jobs, friends, economy and other life events that there is no control over.
Keeping a marriage together through difficult times can be [...]

How to have a happy divorce?

Divorce is a very difficult situation in everyone’s lives. It is very emotional, hurtful, takes a lot of time and effort and creates many changes in the lives of parents and children. There are many reasons why a couple divorces: finances, out of love, affairs, abuse, does not want to be married anymore.
Divorce does [...]

What does it mean when you say, “Okay”

This was pointed out to me by my supervisor when I was doing my internship for my licensure as a Marriage and Family Therapist.
When you are saying, “Okay” after telling someone to do something, you are really asking if they want to do it or even permission.
For example, when you tell your child [...]

How to do abdominal breathing.

Breathing is the most natural thing a person can do. For whatever reason, when a person is anxious, scared or very angry, they “forget” to breathe which does not help the brain get the oxygen it needs to be able to think clearly.
Here are four simple steps:
1. Place one hand on your abdomen [...]

What are Words of Wisdom?

Words of Wisdom can be from someone else’s experiences or just our own experiences. What things come to your mind that you have learned in your life? From other peoples’ lives? What experiences have you gone through that you can help others? What can you learn from your own past experiences that can help you [...]

3 Things that Pushes a Husband Away

Marriage is a partnership. Two people came together, bringing all different sorts of wonderful and unique aspects into the marriage.
Each individual has their traits, personalities, frustration and limitations that are brought to the marriage. Combining the differences from the wife and husband can create a great marriage or a really difficult one.
Marriage is [...]

PARENT BOOT CAMP!!

I was watching Dr. Phil who is beginning his next Parent Boot Camp (teens/kids too) and it was interesting to listen to the parents and hear how they talk about their kids.
The parents were not happy with their teen, did not particularly like them, very angry and frustrated with them, wanted to stop being [...]

Is your teen Sexting? What can you do?

If you have watched Dr. Phil, there was a show about texting. This also has been on the news.
Sexting is sending nude or partial nude pictures through text on phones. Texts can include sexual explicit information, not just pictures.
A statistic that I heard from www.freedombeginshere.org said that 39% of teens between 13-16 years [...]